I am not saying all Americans are singles. But I do not know why most people around me happen to be singles. When I say singles it does not mean they are never married. A few of them are divorced. However, a couple of them are never married before and they are in their 40’s. I was curious why they are still singles, no boyfriend or girlfriend. But I did not have the guts to ask them why because I did not want to be nosy.
Finally, the opportunity came along when they asked me where I met my boyfriend. I said I met him from an online dating site. They were surprised and amazed at the same time. They told me they never thought this online dating would work and they were curious to know more about this Internet dating world. Though, I did not have a chance to ask them why they are still single besides I already knew the circle of their daily life; getting up, going to work, and going back home. That is what they do everyday, and that is what they told me. On top of that, I just found out they never believed in online dating before either, at least not until now. I got them going with this new idea of online dating.
I never thought before I would become someone who can give dating advice to people I know. And because I met my boyfriend from online dating site, now they want me to suggest online dating sites to them. I suggested some of online dating services to them. But I first ask them if they are willing to pay to use the services from a dating site. They looked at me smiling and say, no if not necessary. Because they are still not quite sure if this thing will work. If it involves a service fee, they would feel more comfortable and rather pay for the dating agency for that kind of service. I do not blame them for that as I found my boyfriend on a free dating site or free online dating service. It worked for me.
A couple of weeks later, they were both members of a few free online dating sites I suggested. They mentioned that they had a hard time to put their personal ad up because they are not familiar with sharing information about themselves on the Internet, but they are getting better and more comfortable. They mentioned that they have not found anyone yet, but had good opportunities to chat with few other online singles. This experience is new to them and they enjoy and love this moment, but they do not want to put too much hope on it, as they are still new to this Internet dating world. They just take it as it goes to see what happens. At least they now realize that online dating personals might actually work for them. And there is a fat chance to know someone and possibly meet someone through these online dating services which they never thought would be possible before.
Any American singles or any online singles out there who read this article, if you didn’t try this already, I would suggest you to try a free online dating service or even a paid online dating site for yourself. All in all, it worked for me and, hopefully, it works for you as well.
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