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- Looking for "the one"
- My Mood:
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- I am:
- 48 | Man Seeking Woman
- Location:
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United States, Beloit, Wisconsin
- Last Login: 08/04/2011 12:57 pm
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- Ethnicity:
- Caucasian (white)
- Body type:
- Toned & Firm
- Height:
- 5' 6"
- Eyes:
- Hazel
- Hair:
- A little gray
- Religion:
- Spiritual but not religious
- Attend Services:
- Only on holidays
- Political Views:
- Very liberal
- Sense of Humor:
- Clever / Quick Witted, Dry / Sarcastic
- Interests:
- Arts, Community Service, Dancing, Dining, Family, Movies, Listening to Music, Photography, Reading, Religion, Theater, Cooking, Computers / Internet, Gaming, Health / Fitness, Other
- In my own words:
- Here is a little blurb I wrote about myself for this dating site and it turns out that I can be somewhat verbose.
I am a high school teacher who works full time with troubled youth and attends graduate school. Ultimately, I am looking to meet someone special to share my life with living a healthy romantic fun life with that person and through the future we build together; for now I think it would be very nice to meet and share quality time with a nice lady and just relax. I enjoy biking, hiking and generally anything out of doors and am also a voracious reader. I have a very well developed sense of humor and love to joke and just live in the moment. I am very hard working, but now seek balance between professional life and personal life. My hair and features have an established hint of wisdom and maturity. I have a constant twinkle in my eyes live to laugh and love to share. Have down days have up days...more are up then down. Prepare yourself for a devilish sense of humor and a hugger snuggler. I am very tactile and live to hold the woman of my dreams. I can be very committed to my one special woman but an not needy, demanding or dependent and am interested in focusing my attention and affection solely on her.
Goals: to finish my doctorate by December 2011, to become one of them there hob-nob uppity professor type people, to find where I put my glasses, car keys and coffee cup (a daily ritual for me)...as well as the ever migrating cell phone thingy along with the magically disappearing charger.
Why I am unique: I am a lot of fun, and am not really one of those hooty-tooty smarty pants types. I enjoy life and I look forward to the magic of each sun rise and each sun set; sometime I like to do the same for Venus and the moon depending upon my sleep cycle. Most people who know me will tell you that they cannot stop laughing (in retrospect, that might or might not be a positive attribute - but I like it).
More about me: 40s, divorced with little drama outside of my being blessed with a y-chromosome (I do suffer from 'guyness' but doubt that you would prefer a man who is not comfortable with his 'maleness'), highly educated intelligent hardworking professional, very independent, huge sense of humor and very fun loving. Enjoy sharing myself, somewhat mischievous, but never mean; very considerate - I treat a lady like a lady. I am a non-smoker, do not drink, do not do drugs, and I love to touch and be touched.
Music preference: heavy metal, country, hard and soft rock, much of the current pop much of the stuff from the 1980s, blues, jazz, and some of the themes from major motion pictures. I used to like Lady Gaga but enough is enough already. My students permit me to listen to "their music" and I have decided that songs that are degrading to women and promote street violence are not really within my preferences list. You will find me to be somewhat of a hopeless romantic and extremely fun delightful company. So if you would consider taking a chance let me know.
Rants and Raves - Deal Breakers and Red Flags
I was reading some of dating sites profiles and many woman have a huge set of "deal breakers" and I thought perhaps I would just list things about me up front to avoid the awkward "red flag" thing other women write about...also I find human behavior to be exceedingly interesting and often amusing so here is my thoughts about why I am defective in some way shape or form...(besides being born and raised male - which is a completely obvious deficiency). I don't own or ride a motor cycle which for many midwestern women is a minimal requirement for a healthy long term relationship...and I quote, "seeking soul-mate for LTR, must be taller than Micheal Jordan and must own a Harley" (vroom vroom) - I have thought of a moped to try to do my part for the environment (I am a self-professed dork) which I know is a total chick magnet (putt putt putt....picture blue smoke or something).
What other deal breakers might I have in store for you...oh, I don't run out to play golf instead of spending time with my family...I watch one to three football games a year...my eleven year old daughter likes basketball and baseball so I take her to one to two games of each each year. I watched some of the Star Trek; I listen to NPR (gasp); I can spell; I like science (I also teach science and math); I can count to twenty – with my shoes on! - sometimes I forget why I was counting to twenty, I can say my "A,B,C"s but I sometimes say them out of order just to watch peoples' expressions; I am not sure if Tofu is a food or a form of carpet padding - maybe it should be a shoe insert; frog legs do NOT taste like chicken - they taste like frog; yellow snow does not taste like a lemon slushy - don't ask; I have to look in the mirror when I shave so my nose remains attached ; I can tie my own neckties but feel awkward wearing one; I changed my daughter's diapers - and I was good at it (I am rather sure I could spend the rest of my life without changing diapers or wearing baby spit-up and not feel the slightest sense of loss); I like to imagine that I still have some hair on the top of my head but I refuse to pay someone to pull it out of my other parts and plug it into the top (ewww); I know how to ask for directions but am pretty sure that we are not lost so there is no need to ask for directions; I like American "cuisine" but have a clear understanding that it would be healthier to eat mud; I enjoy observing people - not all people enjoy being observed; I refuse to drop what I am doing to answer the phone just because someone who wasn't busy at the moment called - unless it is you calling me (of course); I say "thank you" - I also know what "please" means but sometimes forget to say please when I make a request; I think that some kids are too entitled and perhaps some parents should say "No" once each decade or so; I look at women's photos before I read their profiles; I refuse to eat any animal raw (especially one that resembers slimy snot covered ooze festering jello) or kill one for "sport" - I draw the line for all insects at "ain't likely to happen - intentionally"; I once climbed a mountain - then I learned that I had to also "climb down" the mountain; I refuse to pay for local free TV stations; I can take just about anything apart - I am not quite so effective at putting things back together again; If I am paying for the drink I don't really care if glass is half-full or half empty - I want "MY GLASS" "completely FULL": I wonder why it is very difficult for a fast food employee to give me a glass of water without ice or serve un-salted fries; when you ask a child what they are doing and they say, "...Nothing...", they are up do something - if you ask me what I am doing, I will say "...Nothing..." and am likely to be up to something; I exercise but don't understand how people can honestly say "they like sitting on a stationary bike or rowing machine" while getting pretty much nowhere - I prefer to walk or ride a bicycle and go someplace; I think that if a man cannot see his feet he is either sight impaired or fat even if statistically speaking he may be of average build; I think that the women on TV are so skinny that they look grossly malnourished; if you keep finding and dating the wrong kind of man date a different kind of man - I'm "different" (whistling innocently); a leisurely 30 minute conversation with a toll booth worker results in a speeding ticket; I am not shy; I sometimes wonder why weather men need a college degree to read the announcement from the weather service; my "friends" keep "tagging" my facebook wall with "graffiti" however my life moves at a pace that is not "wall worthy"; I get my money's worth when I eat at a buffet; I enjoy youtube videos - funny commercials can keep me busy for hours; if you hate men don't date men; I once memorized something for a class I was taking - I no longer remember the class or the content; I disagree with eHarmony; I drink NA beer - it has a taste that is noting beer-like; I can match my own socks - its the shirt and pants that baffle me; I will be first in line for the next Loggins and Messina reunion tour http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfRfPUsm7 nk&feature=fvsr; and I have a HUGE sense of HUMOR which not everyone understands or appreciates...apparently I can also write extremely long run-on sentences...
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- Age Range:
- 18-Any
- Looking for:
- Dating, Long-Term, Relationship, Marriage, Other
- Match details:
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- Marital Status:
- Divorced
- Have Kids:
- Yes - at home part-time
- Want kids:
- Depends on my partner
- Education:
- Post-Graduate
- Employment:
- Full-time
- Occupation:
- Education / Academic Research
- Income:
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- Smoking:
- No
- Drinking:
- Socially
- Living Situation:
- With pets, With roommate(s)
- Social Setting:
- The life of the party, Social Butterfly, Flirt, Better in small groups, Comic Relief
- TV Watching:
- Movies, Documentaries, Channel Hopper, TiVo is my best friend
- Languages:
- English
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Guliebaby
Hello how are you today nice to meet you i came into the site and saw your profile and i like you that is why i contact you please write back with me email i have a lot to tell you please write in my email because i will not come back on the site please i will be waiting for you in my email id box) [email protected]
anitalove9
Hello,
my name is Anita, i am interested in having good relationship with you. i hope you will welcome my friendship request, I will tell you more about me and send you my picture for you to know who i am,CONTACT ME DIRECT TO MY EMAIL ([email protected])